“Ugh, did you see that they did this horrible, unforgivable thing, love?”
“No, I don't remember that. When did that happen?”
“Oh my god, you must've been in the bathroom, but this horrible unforgivable thing happened and we can never talk to them again.”
… and similar
Pitting your partners against your other partners, coworkers, friends, etc. Undermining, underhanded, passive aggressive manipulation accentuating the other partners flaws while making the accuser seem flawless all in the interest and protection of the accusers insecurities and unresolved, denied, or unknown personal issues.
It's a problem. We talk about it here.
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