While J’s M.O. is generally pretty “live and let live”, on occasion you will find a topic that the feels just fly on. In this episode we discuss and rant about the importance of intentional distinction between friends and lovers and how some people use polyamory as an excuse for their unhealthy behaviors. Making or priming all of your “friends” to be a polyamorous partner (to the exclusion of actually maintaining outside friendships) is an example of one of those actions – and one that J is (apparently) quite passionate about. Friends VS Lovers … annnnd GO!