Fasten your seat belts folks as we careen down the hierarchical highway of structure and non-structure, and roles and rules. We discuss a few different types of hierarchy, what we practice and why, and others that we have experienced even if vicariously through others. A sensitive topic for some – as we are all passionately trying to defend our lifestyles. We reiterate – again and again – do what works for you.
This is the article I was talking about on the podcast about contacting crow.
Being open and pliable is really important to the dating process of becoming ”poly-saturated.” It’s important to find and express your hard ‘no’s’ of course but you learn so much along the way – through the heartache and the magic. It’s worth?- Well, that’s up to you. Isn’t that a beautiful thing?
People on the outside know it all, right? They know everything you’re going to share with them as soon as you tell them that you’re polyamorous – and if they don’t, they have lots of questions. I’m sure you’d all agree that dispelling the myths and misconceptions about our lifestyle is just a side-effect of being polyam. In this episode, we discuss those all-too-frequent interrogatory pokes and nods that are par for the polyamorous course.
Metamours can be one of the biggest perks or one of the biggest stressors to being polyamorous. Taking care to respect your partners choices by having a healthy relationship with your metamours is important. Listen as we discuss the ins and outs of the world of metamourdom and maybe even metamourph your views on the importance of your partner’s partners.
Today we discuss needs. If you are reading this blurb, one thing is certain – you have needs. Each person we encounter has needs. The closer we are to others, the more we will find ourselves accommodating others and having others accommodate us. Needs vary person to person and we touch on different areas you may need to anticipate with current and future partners and how to go about making sure you and your partners are living your best lives.
What’s the secret to ever-lasting love and happiness? Well, we aren’t quite sure – but we do know that life is best lived fully by providing richness and fullness for ourselves and others. Join us as we discuss how laziness will get you a failed relationship and just make you generally haz a sad. If you’re a lazy lover, you’re gonna have a bad time.
Join in today as we discuss the many different flavors of ethical non-monogamy and the pros and cons of using terms and definitions in and out of the lifestyle. Are the definitive plates helpful or do they leave a bad taste in your mouth? We hope you’ll interact with us on social media with the question we pose during this episode.
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Episode 3 – Jealousy and Compersion
In this episode we go over jealousy and compersion. We discuss how the sneaky little bastard (the J word) Jealousy is recognized and what to do with the bastard once it appears. We also talk about compurrrrsion and how compersion brings a different form of happiness into your life as well as ways that this heart-swelling emotion can be shown and expressed.
We continue our discussion on coming out as polyamorous. We will talk about an unintentional outing and deeper discussions about coming out to friends and coworkers.